rescuing the homeless people
i had stay back at office from 10pm till 5.30 am
the day after that, i need to work to 5pm
lucky mary help out to do the facilitator sheet
and give the comment
i do not know that Elaine mean "delete" the red colour pharase, or change the red colour according to the blue colour comments done by mary
in my computer, when i open the facilitator sheet sent back by elaine and mary
actually some part is missing
so i am quite confused, with the part higlight with red, but no comments
but when in SKYPE tonight, elained keep repeating with me GOT, double check
haiz...so funny
when i think of we look at the same sheet, but different input
this is how my facilitator sheet look like when i open and redownload it again and again
it's a hanging phase there
so i am kind of blur, what does it means
so, i revised again, deleted all the comments and pu in new ideas of ALS members
i am blur, so i decided to put the same as there is no COMMENT
yet, Elaine told me there IS....
my god
we are talking about this topic for so long
finally i just make up conclusion
that is, the sheet that i looked at actually got some missing part.
i blamed on computer system/ or the different window/ versions of MS office
haiz.....
what a weird situations
haha
finally done.
i will asked to submit this work to Alex Chew
so, wait for others members to send me things back
Thanks for sharing your feelings.Apologize for making things complicated and confusing for you over the other side of the screen, which brought to you much anxiety, frustration and probably feeling misunderstood or misjudged by me, after a long and tiring night of office work, perhaps emotionally exhausted. This happens in group dynamics.
ReplyDeleteHowever, as we remained calm and got out of our conditioning to merge our work with something as 'personal', we moved on to complete the task, not without struggling, but 'without giving up hope' on each other, we attempted to resolve it and this helps to transcend our limitation for common good! A learning lesson for me.thanks I Ling!
Take comfort on doing a task that is invested with your emotions and where the expression of your 'Self' is shared with others, thus the process is therapeutic in itself which I imagine a therapist seeks when working with their clients, its not the activity pers se but what is invested in the 'activities' that makes it uniquely meaningful for each and everyone.
ReplyDeleteHi I Ling, I think you are very brave in taking up the task to do all 5 facilitators' sheets. It is truly frustrating to see something that what others may not see and vice versa...and how much it can actually become destructive to the working relationship. Emm.. perhaps this is the weakness of IT...Now that we are aware there may occur such problems in our documentation, hopefully, such problems can be prevented in the future learning. Thanks again for your dedication. Take care
ReplyDeleteI Ling, Thanks for your hard work !
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